Welcome to WJ Tedster, please do your best to help the site grow and do not get power hungry because nobody likes that. @M in my opinion was perfect but I trust him to choose someone with the right credentials.
Used to be a vBulletin guy myself, but I have converted to XenForo long since.
It is (or at least was) much easier and more fluid to work with.
It was a b*** back in the day to work with add-ons on vB.