kloxo and DNS Help Please

[iman24]

Hi guys

i moved my site to new company and its works fine for 2 days
but suddenly the server ram always be high [512MB]
then the admin make it 4GB to see what is going on
and the site eat all memory

i asked him to re-install kloxo again and he did it but without any configuration

so, i found some tutorial and configure it by myself but the site won't load

contacted them again and they said:
"Try to disable the Recursive queries option and try again."

also the ram is still very high 1GB and they said the apcha takes a lot of ram

can anyone help me in this issue by guide me how configure kloxo
correctly and prevent the ram to be high like this

Thanks

Edit : they fixed Recursive queries but the site still not loading

 

[mortorius]

Read this article, this will help you.

 

[Cometolearn]

pm me your y id i will help u

 

[-sky-]

edite my.cnf put this copy and paste

[mysqld]
datadir =/var/lib/mysql
log_slow_queries =/var/log/mysqld.log
user=mysql
old_passwords=1
port = 3306
skip-locking
key_buffer = 64M
myisam_sort_buffer_size = 32M
max_allowed_packet = 16M
table_cache = 512
thread_cache_size = 512
join_buffer_size = 1M
sort_buffer_size = 1M
read_buffer_size = 1M
read_rnd_buffer_size = 256K
net_buffer_length = 128K
thread_stack = 128K
tmp_table_size = 16M
query_cache_limit = 1M
query_cache_size = 16M
query_cache_type = 1
thread_cache_size = 128
skip-bdb
skip-innodb

[mysqldump]
quick
max_allowed_packet = 16M

[mysql]
no-auto-rehash
#safe-updates

[mysqld_safe]
open_files_limit = 8192
log-error=/var/log/mysqld.log
pid-file=/var/run/mysqld/mysqld.pid

[isamchk]
key_buffer = 16M
sort_buffer_size = 16M
read_buffer = 16M
write_buffer = 16M

[myisamchk]
key_buffer = 16M
sort_buffer_size = 16M
read_buffer = 16M
write_buffer = 16M

[mysqlhotcopy]
interactive-timeout

[client]
socket =/var/lib/mysql/mysql.sock

[ndbd]
connect-string="nodeid=2;host=localhost:1186"

[ndb_mgm]
connect-string="host=localhost:1186"

 

[deAthbLisS]

you can PM me i can fix your site