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you cant force someone to like you or love you
you can just try and give your best for someone you think is the one you want to spend your life with

if you'll force her to love you or chose you as your life partner it wont be the way you want it
it wont work out

in your case blaze i'll suggest you to move on look for someone else try not to think about her much cause its not a thing you can force on someone i remember giving you some tips on how to get her intention but reading this today i believe its about time you should focus more on your life/career and forget about her

sorry mate, but its about time you should face the reality.
 
Vixen said:
If you want a decent and serious girlfriend don't waste time going to the gym and buying expensive flash clothes or showing off in a car or you'll just attract a girl who's interested in your car and body, not you as a person. That's why it's important to be yourself, if she falls in love with who you are it doesn't matter how you dress, how you look or what you drive.
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Well we are not really saying go out of your way to look like a baller because we know girls will come for the money but every person should at least have their own sense of style which looks decent so you can have someone who at least is willing to talk to you and then great things can happen.
 
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BlaZe said:
Well I can't actually give tips because I failed much in drawing an attention of the girl I really loved.

I tried to do whatever others suggested. Being bold, funny, clever, smart, out-of-the-box, courageous, macho, caring, loving, honest, etc.

But at the end it didn't work out. I know that I'm not that handsome, but with a pretty decent face and a quite good body.

But the only problem was, when I proposed her, she said no, I didn't have the guts to talk to her ever. I used to help her indirectly, but meh, bad luck it still didn't worked out. I even stood for her many times, but no effect.

I was (am) pretty much broke at this moment. Today I just messaged her to ask how much marks she got as her academic results were out. She replied, asked about my result. END OF STORY.

What next ? I'm still feeling like a low bastard, thinking that grass will grow on rocks :'(

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I thought today, after messaging her, maybe something will be done magically and my valentine's day wouldn't be single. But its a fucking real world ! Fantasies are prohibited
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He, don't give up. Maybe its time to try out a completely new style :)

greets,
inject0r
 
BlaZe said:
Well I can't actually give tips because I failed much in drawing an attention of the girl I really loved.

I tried to do whatever others suggested. Being bold, funny, clever, smart, out-of-the-box, courageous, macho, caring, loving, honest, etc.

But at the end it didn't work out. I know that I'm not that handsome, but with a pretty decent face and a quite good body.

But the only problem was, when I proposed her, she said no, I didn't have the guts to talk to her ever. I used to help her indirectly, but meh, bad luck it still didn't worked out. I even stood for her many times, but no effect.

I was (am) pretty much broke at this moment. Today I just messaged her to ask how much marks she got as her academic results were out. She replied, asked about my result. END OF STORY.

What next ? I'm still feeling like a low bastard, thinking that grass will grow on rocks :'(

EDIT:
I thought today, after messaging her, maybe something will be done magically and my valentine's day wouldn't be single. But its a fucking real world ! Fantasies are prohibited
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Pretty much bollywood drama. God would have been watching some Bolly flick while making ur destiny, but wait thats just another common story repeated in some or other sequence for most of ppl. Not everyone gets what they want. Accept it & move ahead :-?
 
Deep Subject:

Some here are still figuring out the difference between Love and Lust.

Be yourself, no one will fall in love with a lie, people always see through the BS after a while. Naturally you want to look presentable but you can't love yourself more then your partner.

Don't look for love because you really will not know you have it until you have it!

Take care of yourself and your partners health once you find love so it will last a lifetime, true love is rare and very hard to find once in a lifetime you do not want to have to do it twice.
 
humour said:
Pretty much bollywood drama. God would have been watching some Bolly flick while making ur destiny, but wait thats just another common story repeated in some or other sequence for most of ppl. Not everyone gets what they want. Accept it & move ahead :-?
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Its not a fucking bollywood drama or something. I experienced that, wrote it here, that's it.

I have moved forward, but as soon as something related to her comes in front of me, I start getting a flashback of everything :/ and this really pisses me off.

But, as you said, "Not everyone gets what they want", I gotta admit to that. But still theres a slight hope inside me that gets me thinking maybe some magic will be done and she'll come back to me :'(
 
BlaZe said:
But, as you said, "Not everyone gets what they want", I gotta admit to that. But still theres a slight hope inside me that gets me thinking maybe some magic will be done and she'll come back to me :'(
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I think the same bout my ex, We going thru shit right now but it would be sad to see all the shit we went thru go to waste. but if it does fuck it, its life.Gotta move on even tho its hard on some and harder on others.
 
Interesting Thread,

I broke up with my ex 4 years ago - I've not been with anybody since. I am dedicated to my work, I end up working 12 hours a day, six days of the week and due to that I have very few opportunities to meet new people and that's I think is my issue.

give me some suggestions to meeting new people :)

Before anybody says stop working so long, it's a commissioned based job, I work the hours to get a very very high salary, company car (BMW 130i sport) and a house rent free, so that wont change for a long time to come.
 
I was just talking to a girl all these days! I was just myself and i just explain things in different ways' it maybe philosophically or in a humor. And firstly, because i'm in India right now, i was never this close to anyone and had always maintained proximity. And somehow after a two weeks or so, she just said she likes me, and soon after that, she says she loves me.. and me i was just confused! I've never talked to girls much as i was in a boys convent school, but that doesn't make a gay lol. But, as i am just 16 i thought it's just the infatuation that she has all the way. Firstly i'm not a brilliant student and secondly i stay away from my college bullies and perverts. And also, i need to concentrate in my academics and then think of relationships in twenties something " i think this way". or maybe when i'm 18 or enough to understand these things better. But, for now, plainly, we're good friends! Just be yourself, because you can't act all the life. Even if you do, you won't get a oscar or true love for that.
 
Yate said:
Interesting Thread,

I broke up with my ex 4 years ago - I've not been with anybody since. I am dedicated to my work, I end up working 12 hours a day, six days of the week and due to that I have very few opportunities to meet new people and that's I think is my issue.

give me some suggestions to meeting new people :)

Before anybody says stop working so long, it's a commissioned based job, I work the hours to get a very very high salary, company car (BMW 130i sport) and a house rent free, so that wont change for a long time to come.
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Go out on your off days, clubs,bars,events,etc you never know.
 
I will tell you one wisdom from which all other wisdoms arises. If u get it right you will understand women more than ever:
A woman has three reasons for everything she does:
the reason she says she has
the reason she thinks she has
and the reason she really has

btw, learn some close up magic
 
suhel said:
If your cubby then it's hard to get girls.
Their is one simple rule eat less than your body requires.
I would suggest doing weight training 3-4 times a week and cardio every day if possible.
Calorie counter and good luck
http://www.freedieting.com/tools/calorie_calculator.htm
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lol.

who would date bones? eat more than you burn. get some muscles. lol. girls loves muscles. cardio and eating less calories than you need makes you thin and ugly and you wouldn't have any energy left for dating..

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:P
BlaZe said:
Well I can't actually give tips because I failed much in drawing an attention of the girl I really loved.

I tried to do whatever others suggested. Being bold, funny, clever, smart, out-of-the-box, courageous, macho, caring, loving, honest, etc.

But at the end it didn't work out. I know that I'm not that handsome, but with a pretty decent face and a quite good body.

But the only problem was, when I proposed her, she said no, I didn't have the guts to talk to her ever. I used to help her indirectly, but meh, bad luck it still didn't worked out. I even stood for her many times, but no effect.

I was (am) pretty much broke at this moment. Today I just messaged her to ask how much marks she got as her academic results were out. She replied, asked about my result. END OF STORY.

What next ? I'm still feeling like a low bastard, thinking that grass will grow on rocks :'(

EDIT:
I thought today, after messaging her, maybe something will be done magically and my valentine's day wouldn't be single. But its a fucking real world ! Fantasies are prohibited
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Just ask her if she wants to go out with you.. Movies, clubs.. you name it.. It's not hard.. If she says no, fine, then try another chick.
 
Overjaculation said:
Just ask her if she wants to go out with you.. Movies, clubs.. you name it.. It's not hard.. If she says no, fine, then try another chick.
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I asked her this 2 years before. She said no. And I honestly couldn't find any girl in whom I may be interested.
I know its weird, but I simply cannot generate interest in any other girl rather than her.
 
Well I know some girls doesnt like shy guys. So maybe being out going/bold might help. And you gotta be good with words also.
 
BlaZe said:
I asked her this 2 years before. She said no. And I honestly couldn't find any girl in whom I may be interested.
I know its weird, but I simply cannot generate interest in any other girl rather than her.
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You can not force her, exactly. :P You just have to let go.

Good luck.
 
Hah, i just accidentally clicked on this thread, i didn't know there was a thread for the singles, i'm glad that besides the usual how to do this, how to fix that, we are a having a discussion as normal human being where no trolling or hatred members are replying so far.
 
Well few retards did try to start a hatred war but I guess their replies were deleted. (WJunction members cannot have a mature discussion without the staff being involved)
 
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